Gary

[Gary]

Erm, not sure what’s going on here.  Everything seems to be getting very heated and I’m not sure why.

There’s currently a vote about whether Dare 16 should be reinstated (I can’t find it atm), but that is pen to all members and the result will be adopted by all of us – not those that shout loudest or pay the most (I am NOT siding with any other person by that comment)

The master dare list is about doing the dares, not posting photos.  Yes I find it a little annoying that some people don’t want to post their pictures but that’s an option open to all of us if we choose – my exhibitionist side insists mine are posted.

In the same way any dare can be done or not, the evidence can be shared or kept private.  Everyone’s personal choice.

Time for everyone just to take a breather …

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[Gary]

On the plus side – this topoc has increased Members’ participation 😉

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[Gary]

Sorry @risktaker but I don’t see this as being anything different to being naked indoors/in your garden.  Just my humble opinion 😉

[Gary]

Totally get that @ibi2004

If the purpose of the site is to support people in their journey, then not publishing your pictures comes in the same category as the new a, b and c dares.

Not sure your pictures (or mine for that matter) would be shared/monetised but the choice is yours – I just need to knock you from the top spot 😉

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[Gary]

I do feel “cheated” by pics not being published, but the dare is to take the picture and if @Ed says it’s a pass then I’m happy with that.

It’s better than people not taking part

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[Gary]

I am happy with that approach.

Anything that encourages participation has to be good.

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[Gary]

I had forgotten about that conversation.

So the choices are

1. Dares a, b and c do not count towards the “total count”
2. We have to revisit the “must be a nude, full frontal” (which I think is in the intructions anyway)
3. We accept these 3 dares are to get people started and should still be treated a 1 dare = 1 point (any of us are free to submit for these dares if we want to) with a suitable amendment to the rules

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[Gary]

Not really.

There’s 3 new dares, which everyone can do or not do. It’s entirely their choice.

Simple really

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[Gary]

I don’t agree with the 3 bonus points.

Some people have gone straight into the last few dares but they don’t get credited with the dares earlier in the list.

A dare is a dare.  If you feel put out by the “easier” then there’s nothing to stop you doing them, these new dares are really hard for some and should count equally

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[Gary]

Of course they should count!  The whole idea of this list is to stretch your comfort zone and that boundary is different for everyone.   If a, b and c don’t count then we are saying to @enfdiana and @missjd that their steps aren’t as important, whereas I would say they are more important because of the massive step it means for them and others.

Also, where do you draw the line at what counts?  Do we ignore 1 and 2 because they can be in your own house?  I think not.

Hopefully that’s the answer you were after @ed 😄

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