Is CFNM more exciting if you never see the woman naked?

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    • #2676
      Arthur
      • Long Island, New York, United States
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        @shynudedude83

      I feel that just knowing she got to see you naked but you never got to see her means she always has that over you.

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      Prof Green
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      Yes, but she’d owe me a return match 🙂

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      Don Smith
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      There is a certain amount of excitment in CFNM, if she never is naked.

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      Prof Green
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      Surprising to see this in a mainstream newspaper’s website.

      What it’s like inside CFNM (clothed female, naked male) fetish parties

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        Don Smith
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        yes it is surprising to see that article on mainstream media.

        it occurs to me that CFNM has at least some dominance to it, not necessarily BDSM, but at least some flavor of it. A male is ordered to do things, such as strip.

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      Auxilia
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      I think anticipation is everything, so if there’s no prospect at all of seeing the woman naked then it’s less exciting to my mind

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      Steve
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        @steverinude

      I’ve had massages where the masseuse, fully clothed, allowed me to be fully nude and not use a drape or towel. These were mostly therapeutic massages – some teasing, but nothing more. I had no expectation of the masseuse removing her clothing, but the combination of being fully nude in her presence, plus the physical contact, was exciting indeed.  I think the imbalance of power (male nude and vulnerable, female clothed and in control)  just adds to it.  And it was that factor, that kept me going back again and again.

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      Arthur
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        @shynudedude83

      I have to admit this issue has been on my mind a lot the past few days because I recently found a woman who lives nearby I’m hoping to meet up with who liked the idea of me always being naked around her at all times but she never plans to get naked for me. I have to admit it’s also frustrating but at the same time exciting but I am wondering if I got in over my head!

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      Prof Green
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      That makes me think of naked cleaners. I can clean. I don’t mind being naked.

      I don’t think I have the body for it though! 🙁

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      Bashir67
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        @expatnudist

      Sttange question. If the female was naked thwn wouldn’t it be NFNM.??????

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        Prof Green
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        It would depend on the sequence of events. CFCM until she makes you strip completely naked; CFNM while she ties you up; NFNM after she strips in front of you; NM after she’s gone home and left you there.

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        NudeNik
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        I like your nude in public photos. I don’t think I’ve ever been at a station without too may other people around to stand a chance of stripping off without being seen. I’d like to have more photos of me naked in urban settings, I have lots that are nude in natural surroundings. I think this year I’ll try to balance them out more.

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      Auxilia
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      I suppose it depends on whether or not the man is by nature submissive or not – although interaction between sub and dom can be very complex.  For me a big turn on is those roles swapping places (winners of strip games getting stripped themselves for example).

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        Prof Green
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        We sometimes played the “winner gets stripped” rule back in the day. It creates a more level playing field if everyone is at least a lot more naked than usual at some point in the evening, and it makes it more fun for the winner too!!

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        Susan
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        Oh!   That would be so mean!

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        Don Smith
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          @dons256

        Might be kind of fun, susan!

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      Auxilia
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      @profgreen we need to know more about this!!!

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    • #3866
      Prof Green
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      @auxilia, When we were teenagers, me, my friend, my sister and her friend used to play gamers, often with some degree of stripping involved. With board games, we had to take something off if we rolled a double. It’s good harmless fun, often with very few clothes removed, but there’s still a real risk of ending up naked. For some reason, we decided that when we played Monopoly, the winner would be stripped by the others, probably because the winner of a Monopoly game is always a bit unpopular! You could easily be the only one naked in that situation so my sister and her friend would see me naked without me seeing them naked that day. Just to complete the humiliation, the winner had to roll a dice to determine their naked forfeit. These included standing on a table, being spreadeagled, going outside, hands tied behind back, being blindfolded, and one that’s easier to do than explain but essentially you had to sit on the front edge of an armchair, open your legs, and lie back into the armchair.

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      • #3883
        Don Smith
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          @dons256

        That sounds like a fun game!

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        Prof Green
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        The games were definitely fun. The wider picture was a bit weird – I’ll post on it when I’ve worked it out more but don’t hold your breath!

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        Susan
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        Yeah.  Great fun game.   When I was small I never had friends that wanted to play such games.   Only boys who were always trying to see my tiny boobies or up my skirt.  Being a very naughty girl, I let quite a few have a look.    The only thing that was like a ‘game’ was with my older brother.  When we were alone in the house we would get naked together and ‘mess around’.   ‘Never real sex.    This began at age about 12 & 14 and onward ’till he went away to college.

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      PembsWalker
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        @pembswalker

      I prefer my CFNM situations to be with ladies I won’t see naked.

      I used to visit a naturist site where the female owner wasn’t a naturist. I was always quite excited to be naked around her while she was fully dressed.

      One time when I visited, she changed her top in front of me and I saw her breasts. She said she felt comfortable enough to do that around me, which was nice, but it spoilt the CFNM sensation for me from then on.

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      Martin
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      For me, CFNM is a situation where the dominance is with the female and the male should always be in that position of vulnerability. It’s a exhibitionism situation as well and that would be broken, for me, by the female/s also getting naked.

      It has happened where I thought I was to be the only one naked, true CFNM in front of two females, and the evening changed such that all three of us ended naked as one of the females thought it was unfair I was alone and had all the fun of being stripped by them, and she wanted to strip – and then encouraged the other to strip in a similar way. Both of them stripped themselves, I was stripped by them.

      It’s fine to end that way but certainly I felt it different to situations when I have been the naked male alone. Not “excitement” as such, just a sense of the whole buzz being different when all are naked.

       

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