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26th March 2025 at 4:13 pm #20454
I think it still has a place as a discussion forum, if it doesn’t cost significantly for hosting. I’m not here for photos. I’m interested in the strange in-between world of nudity that’s not sexual, yet still feels challenging and maybe taboo? A bit different to full on signing up as naturist, but I’m not a voyeur or an exhibitionist. I’m basically puzzled.
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26th March 2025 at 4:54 pm #20455
I’m interested to know what these rules are — but concerned about creating a very strange search history by looking for them!
I already know that if a person in an image appears to be underage, it’s going to be the downloader of the image who is asked to prove that they were old enough! It’s quite possible to get in serious trouble without anyone actually proving anything was intended.-
26th March 2025 at 9:06 pm #20458
I have to be able to prove that anyone naked on the site is over 18 (regardless of how they look – it’s the documentation that counts).
The annoying thing with all of this is anyone who is dodgy and doesn’t comply with existing laws, just won’t comply with this one either. It’s everyone who is above-board and following the rules who will suffer all the extra hurdles to stay legal. We’ve already lost almost two-thirds of the UK adult industry. This change will probably wipe out much of the rest.
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28th March 2025 at 7:13 pm #20472
Do bank standing orders have the same problem?
- Is Patreon inventing rules that are over and above what UK regulations require?
- Do bank standing orders have the same problem?
Web sites that serve the UK are supposed to be regulated by Ofcom, not by arbitrary rules imposed by payment processors. Patreon doesn’t seem to be regulated (at least, not under UK law) but I would hope that if any UK bank tried to impose restrictions over and above what ofcom and or UK law requires, the UK FCA or other regulator should insist that the banks handle all lawful payments.
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28th March 2025 at 10:59 pm #20473
Online card transactions happen entirely under the rules of Visa and Mastercard. They have VERY strict rules. Any company that doesn’t want to follow those rules can just choose not to sell stuff online. There is no alternative. If you don’t comply, they can shut you down instantly. Patreon won’t risk losing their entire business.
Sadly, there are no British card processors left.
Patreon must comply with their processor’s rules (which are dictated by Visa and Mastercard). UK law doesn’t really apply.
UK banks have been debanking people for adult content for years (I’ve lost 2 bank accounts and 3 online-billing accounts over the past 15 years). This isn’t a sudden change, but the rules have been steadily tightening up and UK law is adding more restrictions too, especially regarding age verification.
To clarify, the reason for possibly moving site content onto the Patreon system is so the age-verification requirement (UK law – July this year) becomes their problem rather than ours (mine). See: https://www.ofcom.org.uk/online-safety/illegal-and-harmful-content/roadmap-to-regulation
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28th March 2025 at 11:14 pm #20475
As for the age verification of people posting. Mastercard are behind the payment thing that got patreon to change. Other payment providers will follow suit. Making only it almost impossible to pay membership to an adult site without an age check on all performers. Both MasterCard and Visa took a stance against porn hub and other a while back stopping taking payments.
The new UK laws basically make it so you cant access any porn explicit website without age verification and a simple check box to say you are old enough isn’t enough anymore.
It won’t have to be id related but then it might require banking info or something so it basically becomes if again for any users who will see explicit content.
Let’s remember this is all about keeping people safe online and stopping children accessing porn. We had a lot of discussion here about dare 16 and consent. If u agree or not with the stances taken considering the amount of underage people access content and the amount of content of people illegally sharing other people LS photos this is probably a good thing if it works..
I just don’t think as it is it will work properly
The new UK la
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26th March 2025 at 7:39 pm #20456
Yeah this whole thing is a shitshow. Nobody is going to upload their personal ID to browse porn, beacuse everything gets hacked eventually.
Would patreon provide enough cover to prove 18+, you could make the patreon sign up 18_+, could you have two levels, an annual fee of not much to get what is here now, and the higher fee as it is today. .
Then a free site with comments but no photos?
Fucking UK nanny state, this is completely stupid, does nothing, and every kid under 20 will work out how to use a VPN within about an hour.
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26th March 2025 at 8:53 pm #20457
Patreon only allows nudity with photo ID to prove consent and age of those being posted. I’ve looked at getting an 18+ clearance on Patreon and it’s too complicated. If I was running an adult site, it might be worth it, but working with volunteer participants, it’s just not viable. None of this part is anything to do with UK law.
UK law is bringing in a ridiculous and unrealistic age-verification requirement. If anyone manages to get in who isn’t of age, I will be liable. Right now, this is going to force AMOC and SGC to close.
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27th March 2025 at 6:42 am #20459
You have stats for hits on landing pages, page views and things. can you see what sort of level of hits are to pages with photo/video content bs that to non photo forum pages.
I came here first off years ago for the dare challenges. I was looking for something that had a list of challenges to do. That’s what drew me in.
I stay for the conversations in the forums. I guess I’m trying to say for existing users for me personally I would miss the photos but it wouldn’t drive me away from the site if we lose them. We can always host on other places and link to to content?
My guess is it will be hit and miss for new users if there is no photo content to draw people in. So the current community might be it with very little extra growth. does that still work for you with hosting and running the site for the current community? (Please say yes)
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27th March 2025 at 9:24 am #20460
The main Master Dare List page (not the results table) gets the most visitors by far, then the blog (ie main landing page) comes a second. As a distant 3rd, with less than a quarter of the visitors, we get the MDL ranking table, followed closely by the forums and then the blog categories “Video” and “Photos”. After that, it’s a list of individual forums getting less than 2% as much as the MDL.
I’m not sure how popular the Ranking table would be with just results totals and no links to photos. How many people would take part without photos being published?
We can run the conversations (forums) on Patreon itself with their “Community” section. The site’s Patreon page actually gains more free members every day than visit the actual website so expanding posts and forums there would make sense. Without the videos/galleries on the site however, how many people would still become patrons?
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27th March 2025 at 2:52 pm #20463
So I’m guessing then on google searches people are asking about naked dares and hence that page comes up most often. Seems like it doesn’t do enough to drive people to the ranking page though so I don’t think the site will get much new attention without photos. The attention span of people nowadays if it isnt in front of you on the landing page then they just don’t care enough to search further. Also kind of makes me feel having photos doesn’t make that much difference to people hanging around unless they are on the main page. So without photos the community is unlikely to grow then it’s just a case is the people already here and how do they feel. I’m happy to stick around. I enjoy the talk as much if not more than the photos.
ill still take videos and photos. Just load them somewhere else.
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27th March 2025 at 9:20 pm #20466
Let’s see what actually happens before we panic. Governments have a habit of making bills sound a lot worse than they are, so we just accept them when it’s not quite as bad as feared.
Not many of us post photos, it probably wouldn’t be too difficult to work something out.
Personally my favourite bits are the dares, the forums and the experiments, if we ever got them off the ground again.
Your main issue would probably be the footage you post on the blog, they are the only people in here anywhere near 18
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27th March 2025 at 10:22 pm #20468
Having photo-ID for “performers” is a requirement for financial transactions, so I get no say in that. If I don’t comply, Patreon will not process for me. It doesn’t matter how old people look – it’s the documentation which is required.
When AMOC and SGC close, this site cannot continue. It would need to increase its income many times over to cover the hosting cost – although I would gain considerable storage space, so it’s not all negative.
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28th March 2025 at 9:34 am #20469
If I read the forms right. We would need to fill out a consent form and sign it send it to Ed with a copy of our ID but Ed only needs to share that with authorities if there is an issue in the future. But he has to maintain forever basically. That’s a Patreon thing because of using the payment providers but that effectively means and site with paid services using payment services would have to do the same.
I’m guessing crypto would be out of the range for most people and is probably too much of a volatile system at the moment to be used widespread.
the Patreon terms are already there on their website so do we need act more quickly one way or another on this. Looks like Patreon updated the consent stuff 4 months ago.Ed likes this
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28th March 2025 at 1:11 pm #20470
Just thinking quite a few people who have posted on here have been willing to be part of an experiment if we ever get one going. The requremenys for that are to bring ID and fill out a consent form so for a lot of people on here there’s nothing really stopping us from carrying on posting we just need to take that step to send the docs and do a teams call with Ed to have the looklike test for the ID. In fact I see that bit as an opportunity. If people have to do a photo or video call holding their id to prove it’s them. If it’s video then there is a contact time that could be made use of. I still think one thing that would be cool to have is a video of Ed asking people questions as they strip off to certain keywords or maybe after each question so there are like 6 questions or something so everyone ends up naked at the end of a video. Ed can blur the video easy enough if needed. But then there is content for paid members to watch the video. Obviously cut the ID part out of the video.
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28th March 2025 at 2:21 pm #20471
I like that idea, nice bit of subversion.
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29th March 2025 at 8:50 pm #20479
Ed: “It doesn’t matter how old people look – it’s the documentation which is required.”
There ought to be some way of challenging that. We have a well established rule (in supermarkets etc) that if a person “looks over 25” they don’t have to provide any ID.
- Does UK law (which as I understand it, Ofcom is still drafting) actually say that ID must be provided even if it is totally obvious that the person is over 25? If it does, Ofcom needs to be strongly encouraged to redraft it along the lines of the tried, trusted and more intelligent over 25 rule.
- Has Patreon invented the requirement itself, or because of pressure from Visa or Barclaycard? The UK Payments Service Regulator is currently responsible for regulating Visa and Mastercard in the UK. PSR it seems is about to be merged into FCA. When that happens, FCA should probably be asked to step in and prohibit Visa and MC from abusing their dominant position by inventing stricter rules than UK law requires. They should also, perhaps, consider requiring Patreon to be FCA regulated in respect of transactions involving UK based services or UK customers, and thereby impose the same requirement directly on Patreon. Or, if they’re not willing to regulate Patreon directly, FCA could do it indirectly by telling Visa and MC to bar service to any payment processor that fails to perform a transaction that’s legal in countries of the sender and recipient.
But all of the above hinges on the assumption that Patreon/MC/Visa have invented the silly “must provide documentation even if obviously over 25” rule. If that’s not the case, then it’s Ofcom that needs to rethink, and not (yet, at least) a matter for FCA.
Anyway, back to Bank Standing Orders. They’re nothing to do with either Visa or Mastercard.
Roughly speaking:
- when a transaction uses the 16 digit card number, that’s a visa or MC transaction
- but ordinary transactions (including Faster Payments and Bank Standing Orders) that use sort code and account number don’t go via either visa or MC. I don’t know the exact mechanism, but they probably go direct between the banks concerned or use a different intermediary.
The distinction is confirmed in PSR’s own document at https://www.psr.org.uk/information-for-consumers/ways-of-paying/
That also confirms that PSR (and presumably FCA when PSR is merged into it) is responsible for regulating both types of payment. So, if a UK bank tried to impose arbitrary restrictions over and above what the law requires of the bank,
Bank standing orders are probably not quite so convenient for the sender or recipient. A standing order needs to be set up on the bank’s web site rather than the recipient’s. And I’ve never received a standing order payment, so I’m not sure whether the recipient would be notified if a standing order payment failed, or was cancelled. But because visa and Mc are not involved, it’s worth considering if the unrealistic rules are purely the result of unnecessary interference by Visa and Mc.
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29th March 2025 at 9:38 pm #20480
Oops, an unfinished sentence there 🙁
It should say “That also confirms that PSR (and presumably FCA when PSR is merged into it) is responsible for regulating both types of payment. So, if a UK bank tried to impose arbitrary restrictions over and above what the law requires of the bank, FCA could in theory remonstrate with the bank for abusing their dominant position.
I found an example of where either the FCA or the Chancellor (then Jeremy hunt) seemed to be worried about banks abusing their dominant position, with the FCA reply:
banks are subject to the Payment Accounts Regulations which require that a consumer’s access to a payment account is not denied on the basis of a range of characteristics, including legally-held political views.
That would seem very similar to “performing a legally permitted activity” which is what we would be asking the bank to do, though I’m not aware what that “range of characteristics” actually states, or the question that was originally asked. But it does rather suggest that either FCA or the Chancellor wanted to ensure FCA had the power to stop the banks abusing their dominant position.
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29th March 2025 at 10:15 pm #20481
Patreon states in their terms that their billing company sets the rules.
UK law simply doesn’t matter on this. Visa/Mastercard are outside the UK. They are a private company so they can set rules for customers. If a customer (eg Patreon) doesn’t meet those rules, Visa and Mastercard are not required to process for them. Visa just locks and then terminates their account. If it was a bank in the UK, it would be different. If UK banks made a fuss with Visa or Mastercard, they could just stop processing in the UK which would wipe out economy in days. No-one can risk that.
You could argue that there should be a British card processor, but the UK Government has not done anything about that.
It doesn’t matter what the law is. If Patreon sets a rule (whatever its source), I have to comply with it or they close my account. They cannot be compelled to keep my account open, especially as they are not in the UK either. They don’t mention how old someone looks. They specify the requirement to record ID.
I’m not in any position to protest anything. I don’t want to keep discussing this, it’s depressing me and there’s nothing at all I can do about it.
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4th April 2025 at 9:59 pm #20493
Did we get a clear consensus how many people were happy to share their id with Ed to continue having their pictures posted on here.
Is the whole video call with Ed thing an option even for some people to keep your photos online?
I’m game to do an interview and share my ID.
I guess if not enough do though all the links to pictures and videos are gonna have to go missing soon. And we get a real test of the site working or not without them.
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4th April 2025 at 11:00 pm #20494
From his last post, Ed ain’t ready to fight right now. I’m sure he’ll let us know if and when he is.
I’ve deliberately not posted all week, and look at when last comments were posted this week.
If people want to save this site, they need to make it worth saving and keep the forum active, or do some dares.
If I was Ed, I’d have given up and shut the page down by now. I’m as guilty as everyone else, we go away for a few weeks come back and expect everything to be great.
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22nd April 2025 at 4:45 pm #20576
So — with the advent of new rules the MDL photos are likely to get taken down? Ed, do you have a timescale here? I understand that you view this as a negative, but it could have a flip side in my mind. If I know when they will be taken down, I might actually be more willing to post dare photos in the short period remaining.<span class=”Apple-converted-space”> </span>
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22nd April 2025 at 10:17 pm #20577
If I remember correctly, enforcement of the new law begins sometime in July. My options are to remove the photos or put them in the patrons-only area.
That’s only one of the issues. The two sites (AMOC & SGC) which support this one will probably close around the same time. That means this site either needs to drastically increase its income (5x?) to cover hosting costs or (most likely) move to different hosting, which most probably won’t support adult photo/video content. This renders the legal problem largely irrelevant anyway.
Moving the site to alternative hosting is a major job. For safety reasons (ie not falling foul of the rules or law), it would be better and easier to rebuild the site from scratch on another server. I need to work through what’s involved for each option and decide what to do. It’s SO hard to be enthusiastic when I’ve spent years trying to get things going here. It hasn’t all failed, but it’s been far from successful either. We’re still going, so that’s good, but I can’t see a reliable upward curve.
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22nd April 2025 at 10:37 pm #20578
Payment processing is the other issue right, technically under MasterCards rules you have to have id for any performers on the site too. That’s why it’s in patreons tos. It’s been in patreons tos that you have to have I’d for all performers from May 2024 I think it was. Not sure what legal recourse that has or if they just withhold payments to you.
Visa are very likely to follow suit with their TOS and then it will affect near enough every mainstream payment option. id will be needed for anyone posting phootos regardless of if the photos are behind a paywall or not.
I don’t want to see the photos disappear altogether. A lot of the people with photos on here I’ve interacted with in different channels. It’s always good to put a body to a name. I feel like talking to people who you know have seen and can still see pictures of you completely naked is a challenge in itself.
I know face videos and pictures have been blurred for me but at least 1 person here has seen my face and for a prolonged period of time while I was completely naked walking away from my clothes. I need to do that challenge again sometime and hope more people turn up next time.
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22nd April 2025 at 10:44 pm #20579
I guess an option is to blur genitals.
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22nd April 2025 at 11:04 pm #20582
I can’t bill directly on the site as I cannot comply with Visa/Mastercard rules (user-posted content). Equally, I can’t post user-generated nude content on Patreon. IDs and consent forms are a pain but if I start storing people’s actual details (real names, IDs etc.) then it gets complicated with GDPR too.
I struggle to justify more work, more records and more costs as things stand right now.
Also, are rules/laws going to tighten up again in a year or two’s time? They have already numerous times. It always becomes more challenging, not less. I will find a way forward. I always have.
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22nd April 2025 at 10:49 pm #20581
There is always options right. Would that work still on a cheaper hosting site?
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23rd April 2025 at 9:14 am #20584
Thanks for the replies. I have booked the Naked Heart Walk 13th August, and a hotel room to stay overnight. I might end up meeting up with anyone well who goes, and I figured it was possible we would do a photo or 2, but I’m currently very uncertain about posting photos openly.
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23rd April 2025 at 11:59 am #20586
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25th April 2025 at 4:21 pm #20614
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25th April 2025 at 4:27 pm #20616
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25th April 2025 at 9:29 pm #20617
Having read the new Ofcom guidance several times, I think the best way to continue would be a forum with no photo/video attachments, the MDL with censored photos, articles as before, and either a reduced blog or possibly no blog. Any other nudity on the site might need to be removed or censored. This would bypass the ID requirement (the Patreon one – as our content is not on Patreon) and the legal age verification requirement (as there is no user content beyond text [which is exempt] and no nudity).
That would keep the site in compliance, reduce hosting costs substantially and allow the community to continue into the foreseeable future.
But would you still visit the site?
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25th April 2025 at 10:29 pm #20618
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25th April 2025 at 11:29 pm #20619
I’ve said a few times the photos are good but in reality I find the experience people had doing challenges for more interesting to read about than just seeing the end result. I love getting in to psyche of people what they were thinking during doing stuff.
I’ll be here still
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26th April 2025 at 12:30 pm #20638
For me, the ability to do dares and post photos was part of my story and journey into all this.
I’m not interested in pictures of 20 year old olds being paid to get their kit off, there are a million other sites on the net if I wanted that.
I’m interested in real people’s stories, reading their stories and seeing their pictures helped me have the confidence to post pictures of myself when I didn’t dare do it when I was young enough to be reasonably good looking.
How many active members of the site have pictures up? I’d guess about 10, but hard to gauge as some people visit the site but don’t post in the forum.
I guess it wouldn’t be the end of the world if we lost the pictures, but they are an important part of the site, and what is the point of say taking the risk of stripping off in front of a supermarket one night if the picture is going to be censored anyway?
I’d bin the stuff that doesn’t involve us, and go back to the original purpose, the Horizon doc and people’s experience and experiments with nudity. That’s what makes this site unique.
I’d happily send in verification and it’s only for a handful of people.
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26th April 2025 at 2:55 pm #20651
As far as I can tell, there are no restrictions when it comes to written material. That’s why (in the UK) you can write extremely graphic sex scenes in a novel and then sell it to 12 year olds. (The mom-porn market (50 shades etc.) is enormous and unregulated.) But add a photo and it’s suddenly much more tightly regulated.
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27th April 2025 at 5:43 pm #20675
So are you expecting to have to rebuild the whole thing? That’s a lot of work.
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27th April 2025 at 6:11 pm #20678
Transferring it is also a huge amount of work. Based on past experience, there are always database issues, broken links, failed plugins and more problems when moving a site.
It’s probably best to rebuild the site to ensure I don’t miss removing content which isn’t permitted anymore. Also, if I’m making far-reaching structural changes (which will require layout changes), it’s easier to add things one-at-a-time, that attempt to make everything work at the same time with the changes. Apart from anything else it will make it cleaner and more reliable.
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28th April 2025 at 6:49 pm #20688
Are you still planning to use the Patreon link? Will accounts transfer across?
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28th April 2025 at 7:00 pm #20689
I can only transfer the accounts by copying the database across. If I do that, I’ll get the current forum structure, text content and a mass of broken links. Also, I’ll be dropping a few plugins (like the attachments plugin). I don’t know how the database will react to data referring to plugins that don’t exist?
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28th April 2025 at 7:59 pm #20690
I’m just thinking that people might want to note username details of people that they have as friends etc. It would be nice to know in advance when it’s all going to go down.
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30th April 2025 at 11:26 pm #20707
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28th April 2025 at 9:05 pm #20691
I’m in the US and not familiar with law changes across the pond. When are the pictures coming down??
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28th April 2025 at 10:21 pm #20692
I don’t have a date for that. Basically AMOC and SGC will have to close before July 25th. At that point, the hosting fees become far too much for NE to carry on its own, so NE must move to different hosting by then. Affordable hosting doesn’t allow adult content (or only allows highly restricted adult content).
The law change makes it impossible to have user-posted content (other than text posts, which are exempt) or owner-posted pornographic content (good luck defining that) without water-tight age verification. I don’t have the resources or mechanisms to cover that.
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29th April 2025 at 10:09 am #20693
I could move the forums and blog to Patreon if there’s no nudity in photos/videos. That way, I wouldn’t need a website at all. It wouldn’t be as versatile and there’s always a risk that Patreon would change its rules in future or close down.
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30th April 2025 at 11:58 pm #20708
There’s a thread on Patreon already that’s just random people saying Hi.
At least that wouldn’t need people to reregister — but would it push people into using real names and make email addresses visible?Sue likes this
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1st May 2025 at 8:12 am #20709
Patreon’s “community” section doesn’t work as they said, it seems. I set up 2 forums there BUT haven’t activated it yet. Also, I’m not being told that people are posting. Until you said, I didn’t know anything was going on there.
You’d have to ask Patreon about e-mail addresses. I don’t think they reveal those at all?
If you’ve registered via Patreon, that side of the account would be unaffected, you’d just login in with Patreon on the new NE site and it would carry on. Obviously content would carry forwards as it’s a new site.
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8th May 2025 at 9:13 pm #20781
I’m starting to get some concrete plans together now. I always forget how huge this site is until I look into the details.
The new site will be on https://NakedExperiment.com rather than https://community.NakedExperiment.com.
This simplifies things for me (one site instead of two). I’m still undecided about the forums, but the blog will stay. We’ll definitely be keeping the experiment reports, articles, help pages and some of the information stuff. The MDL will remain but (probably) with censored photos. I won’t be able to allow video anymore and I’d love to know what everyone thinks of ending the option of not publishing the photo for participants. With genitals and faces obscured, surely that’s enough?
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8th May 2025 at 11:43 pm #20783
What counts as needing to be obscured on a woman? Women’s boobs are not that big an issue in regular media, and I don’t feel there’s anything particularly showing (down below) in my MDL photos.
It’s still not something I’d usually put out there.
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9th May 2025 at 8:35 am #20784
I genuinely don’t know. Ofcom have not specified what counts as pornography. Personally, I don’t think this site counts as porn at all, but I suspect the government will have very different ideas. They always conflate nudity with sex and tend to go harder on small sites than large ones. News sites (and Google etc), will probably get away with showing nudity. I suspect part of that is the organisations with huge resources can better defend themselves in court.
Most people would agree that non-sexual topless photos are not adult content, but there’s no clarification on what counts as an infringement.
Other sites have the same problem with “su*cide” content. I wholeheartedly agree that giving advice on committing it, or (worse still) encouraging it, should be restricted. However, if a site publishes a story where a character willingly gives their life to save someone else, that is technically in breach too. There will be a lot of court cases over this to clear up what the legislation means. I have no intention of being one of those court cases, so I will censor boobs too.
We also have the weird thing where the term “breasts” essentially only means nipples. Otherwise women wearing a skimpy bikini top would have potential legal problems walking along the seafront.
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