Over the past couple of years, we’ve lost a few female members of this community because all the member posts seemed to be male and genital focused. I’ve been trying really hard over the past few months to make this site as female friendly as possible. It’s not just a matter of talking to the people who are already here, but attempting to attract some of the people who aren’t.
Several women I’ve discussed precisely this issue with have said that when they arrive at a site like this for the first time, if all they see is dick pics, they just move on and don’t come back. I know I’ll never succeed in anything like a 50/50 male/female balance on the site, but even an 80/20 balance would be an improvement on where we are now.