Which Naked social experiment scenario would you choose

[David]

Id choose being naked. Tis the only gentlemanly thing to do.

If im going to be living with them 24/7 for a year they are going to see me with an erection almost everyday whether i or they like it or not.

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[John]

Although I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t enjoy nudity, I would absolutely give the female the honour of being naked 🙂

I’ve had relationships in the past where I have occasionally been in charge of when my partner wears clothes. Not all the time, just when we were being playful.

There’s a girl called Clare I used to know and we were such good friends that we didn’t want to wreck it by having a relationship, she would absolutely have been the right person for this.

Lesson learned though, she got a jealous boyfriend and we lost touch, we should have had the relationship 🙁

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[Gary]

I thought thiswould be a tricky one to aanswer until I spent a little time, then it was tricky because there are two women to choose between.

The first was my “gym wife”, we got on REALLY well, maybe a little too flirty at times but there was never anything to it.  She is definitely one I would like to see naked every day for a year but as she’s about 20 years younger than me and there wouldn’t be anything between us then she wouldn’t be my first choice.

First choice would be Monica, a rather gorgeous Italian lady I used to work with.  On a business trip (with others) she invited me to have a few drinks – which I (possibly foolishly) declined.  We always got on well and I believe there was a spark, so those drinks might have lead to a one-night.  So she would be my choice and be the one naked.

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[Arthur]

@John

“There’s a girl called Clare I used to know and we were such good friends that we didn’t want to wreck it by having a relationship, she would absolutely have been the right person for this.”

You see if you didn’t want to have any kind of relationship I would think that this type of situation would be incredibly awkward! Remember the rules of the game are if you pick them to be naked they will know that you picked them where as if you are the one who gets naked they will never know so there will be no blame. If you didn’t want to have a relationship don’t you think she would find it a little bit weird or awkward that you picked her to be naked specifically?

When I actually answered this question on the other board where the person brought it up I actually misinterpreted the rules the first time where the idea is that you are supposed to pick someone that you would just like to spend a year with and only afterwards do you realize the horrible twist that you will be naked!

In the end though I found that it still wouldn’t change my attitude. Regardless of the woman that I picked I would feel like a total pig if she had to get naked and she knew that I wanted her to, where as if I was naked and she just thought that it was just random chance it would probably be a source of amusement and there would be no guilt involved.

It also probably would be good because it would probably force me to confront my own extreme shyness. I do think it would be a little bit more embarrassing if I had to get her naked and everything like that and she knew about it where as if I was just embarrassed by being naked around her it would feel more guilt free because I would be the one where the naked burden was placed upon.

I am thinking that this perhaps goes with my Myers-Briggs personality type INFJ, they prefer to make others feel comfortable and take the discomfort of a situation onto themselves and I wouldn’t want to make her feel uncomfortable by having to be naked even though it would be a very uncomfortable and very embarrassing thing for me to be!

Looking at what @David said I think that there is sort of the pressure to do the right thing and be the gentlemanly thing and not seem like a paid by taking advantage of the situation, which is why I would find it would be funny if the decision was hers and I would try to be a gentleman by imposing the nudity on me rather than on her, but it would be funny to see if she was just a total pig and decided to get the naked even though I would know she wanted me like that as that would probably make the whole situation really more awkward than anything else. It’s one thing if she thinks that you are just naked because of random choice, it’s another thing if she thinks that she is naked because of you being a pig, but it’s another thing altogether, but a whole other world to be with a woman who is totally unashamed about the fact that she has no problem with putting you in the uncomfortable position of being naked for her amusement. Personally I think that takes guts! Again maybe a double standard where a woman who be more forgiven for choosing her own pleasure.

[John]

We were friends and although we kept it that way, we did dare games occasionally and had both seen oach other naked. Were the roles reversed she would have picked me to go naked and would have expected nothing less from me.

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[Arthur]

@John

“We were friends and although we kept it that way, we did dare games occasionally and had both seen oach other naked. Were the roles reversed she would have picked me to go naked and would have expected nothing less from me.”

It’s good that you had that rapport before that so it would probably be a lot less awkward once the caveat was revealed that one of you had to be naked because you are already comfortable with each other.

When I think back to all of the women that I considered as part of this experiment again I couldn’t picture myself putting any of them through that since I knew them mostly as casual friends or platonically, but it would be very interesting to see if the decision was there is what decision they would make. With a pick me out of the desire to see me naked, over the fact that they didn’t want me to see them naked or a combination of both?

Again it’s sort of a question that I guess I will never have answered but is certainly something interesting to think about. But all of the women that I mentioned were extremely liberal, sex positive and were not pushovers so I feel that there’s a good chance that a lot of them would choose me to be the naked one and not feel any shame about it, and that’s something I can respect, even though God it would be embarrassing!

In fact based of what I know of the women that I would have selected for this experiment without knowing the caveat in advance I feel pretty confident at least three of them out of the four that I was thinking of would probably vote for me to be the one naked. The girls I knew in high school I think were little bit pervy and not ashamed about it so they probably wouldn’t have had a problem with that, Bonner I have actually talked about these things with so she could probably pick that without feeling guilt especially seeing as she has body issues.

The one I am really not sure about though is the one that I knew in college. She was very liberal and progressive and everything so maybe she wouldn’t mind the idea of getting naked and wouldn’t have a problem with doing that to make me feel comfortable, but on the other hand she had large breasts and could have been self-conscious about it so it’s hard to say.

Again though I think that most people are human and most people don’t want other people to think that they are perverts and yet I think most people if given the choice between being naked around the opposite sex or having the opposite sex be naked around them a lot of people probably would pick the selfish decision and make the other person naked and I don’t think there’s necessarily anything wrong with that.

It is an interesting idea though and I am actually now using it as a basis for a novel I am writing except I made one of the horrible things is that after everyone picks their choices the experimenter tells everybody that it was random selection even though some people pick the other person to get naked so they sort of voted their conscience and now have to live with the consequences of that.
But the caveat is interesting because it really does tell you a lot about a person whether they would pick you to be naked with them to be naked and whether or not you would know that you picked them or not, and that’s what the fascinating thing about it is for me.

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