Good question and very perceptive. We couldn’t sustain the risk over those 2 years. It wasn’t essential to our sex life but it certainly enhanced it. One time we were out one Saturday lunchtime, heading into town to go shopping and, without warning, she took all her clothes off, right there in the passenger seat (not that she was wearing that much in the first place as it was a sweltering August day). No-one appeared to notice her but she loved the thrill.
I think she eventually got bored with me as I couldn’t keep up, and caught her two-timing with a guy she met at work. Post Script: I found a recent picture of her on “social meedge” – let’s just say she’s not that lithe anymore (although, to be fair, I’m no oil-painting anymore). Getting old(-er) sucks.
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