Jesss

[Jesss]

Are you getting fit enough not to ache the next day now?

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I don’t really like the dare side of the site myself. I’m only commenting because I’m concerned to see a misunderstanding between 2 regular contributors here. I have not really noticed this kind of discontent on here much, and I feel like I know both of you to some degree.
I think it is misunderstanding to be honest.
I don’t need to see anyone’s pictures, I may be an oddity here because I’m actually quite uncomfortable with pictures of naked men, but I’m still here.
I understand the body confidence side of John’s comment, but not really how 1980’s comments about preferring the story over the photo evidence caused any upset?

I want to get the 2 of you to play nice. I don’t believe any offence was meant.

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[Jesss]

Now I think about it, a fourth one closed about a year or so ago!

[Jesss]

The lengths I have to go to in order to go swimming! 3 of my local swimming pools have closed in the last few years.
I have a very sore shoulder today from my poor technique and posture!

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I’m just nosy about the data protection issue that David has raised:
As far as I can see at the moment, Ed is relying on Patreon doing all that. He’s not checked if we’re using false names, and he’s not storing addresses?
Using photo ID was supposed to be just to establish age? In the same way that you would show ID if asked when buying alcohol? And would likely not get asked once you are past 30 or so.
I think David raises a valid point, and Ed is likely to try to avoid getting dragged into the whole data protection mess if he can verify age without, but how do you prove that you did the age verification, without that creating a record that might become subject to data protection?

I’m glad it’s not up to me!

[Jesss]

Interesting. I’ve read extensively about asexuality, yet I still feel confused. I am shy of publicly coming out as such for the sake of my husband, but I think it comes down to potentially being asexual but hetero-romantic.
I want to be with him, and I don’t want to damage this relationship.
I’m from a Christian background and thought everyone else was making too much of the “no sex before marriage” issue, since that wasn’t hard for me.

I’ve got 2 kids, so we obviously did/do have a sex life, but I’d still say the sexual attraction issue means I probably do fit somewhere on what the youngsters are now calling the “asexuality spectrum”.

[Jesss]

Yes — it’s the “acceptable situations” bit.
I want to flout some of the social conventions, sometimes. I think it’s the ADHD in me rebelling, I never broke any rules as a kid and became too much of a conformer.
However, I think about what the people sat British Naturism events would find acceptable, and I don’t think it includes what you are describing. This site navigates the inbetween space.

[Jesss]

I believe that Ed has said elsewhere that the Patreon link is something he’s keeping. I think people with forum accounts that predated the Patreon, might need to rejoin is I understood what I read correctly?

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[Jesss]

Nudity is still not fairly normal in the circles I normally move in. I would feel embarrassed to even admit that I’ve gone topless on a beach.

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[Jesss]

I’m not sure exactly what a professional data protection 3rd party is exactly.

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