Julie

[Julie]

I’m interested to know what these rules are — but concerned about creating a very strange search history by looking for them!
I already know that if a person in an image appears to be underage, it’s going to be the downloader of the image who is asked to prove that they were old enough! It’s quite possible to get in serious trouble without anyone actually proving anything was intended.

[Julie]

I think it still has a place as a discussion forum, if it doesn’t cost significantly for hosting. I’m not here for photos. I’m interested in the strange in-between world of nudity that’s not sexual, yet still feels challenging and maybe taboo? A bit different to full on signing up as naturist, but I’m not a voyeur or an exhibitionist. I’m basically puzzled.

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[Julie]

OK. I take your point.
I can’t see myself daring to join anything, but part of me would like to.
The thing is that on a nudist beach (at least a foreign nudist beach in warm weather and if no one knows me!) there’s little taboo and I’m sure I’’d feel more comfortable naked than clothed. Then it isn’t sexual, so I feel that the experiments are to look at different situations, in which I run the risk of crossing the sexualised boundary, or the “seen by non-participants, who are scandalised” boundary, if there’s an outside element.

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[Julie]

I think it’s sometimes better to be cautious.

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[Julie]

Realistically I’m a no — but I’’d like to comment because I see the touching when naked and “pushing boundaries” and I can no longer pretend that this isn’t sexual.

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[Julie]

I’m not convinced that the majority of the UK population understand that public nudity is not a crime. I would expect the police to be called about the indecent exposure. There will often be children in cars.

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[Julie]

Well I’m definitely not going to be doing that one! I like to be naked in my own back garden even the weather finally gets warm..I got a thrill from joining in when I met naturists abroad, but I am pretty sure that’s my limit.
I liked at the list of dates and thought about the changing room one, but it doesn’t feel like something I want to do.
Generally, I don’t think I like the idea of discovery in the way that some of you seem to.

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[Julie]

Oh, I’m definitely a case of “damaged by the church!” Even though I still count myself a Christian, I can see the church has caused me grief!

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[Julie]

There was also a time in uni, when I got in trouble for allowing a friend to use my computer centre account. Apparently there were indecent photos on my account. He was recognised in the photos because they had already banned him for it. He didn’t like that I shopped him to clear my name. I never saw the pictures, it was in the early 1990s and I wasn’t even vaguely computer savvy. He was using my account to type up my dissertation as I couldn’t face that much typing. They believed me because I was clueless!

I don’t believe his pictures would be that bad. The world was much more black and white back then and he was a closet transvestite who used to”The Rocky Horror Picture Show” as an excuse.

[Julie]

Yet it would seem that I’m still compulsively checking in!

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