How to define what I am feeling/seeing here?

[Julie]

How does this site fit?

How to label my experience etc?

I have always been very conservative in the past, but discovered a naturist beach and joined in, then found myself here.
I don’t feel that I’m an exhibitionist, as the concept of being accidentally seen/caught is frightening.
I don’t feel that I’m a naturist, as I’m just dabbling. I get a thrill out of playing on the edges of what is acceptable, e.g. topless sunbathing when someone else goes first.
I’m married and doing wood to give off the wrong signals to other men etc.

I’m also quite involved in a church and have never really kept a secret like this before.
In anonymous here (unless anyone I know has identified me from a faceless photo!”

I think I get a thrill/dose of dopamine, from what I’m doing, but I don’t want to find I have regret later.
I’m hoping I’ll be glad that i was bold.
I’m also hoping to stay anonymous!

[ptHarry]

@julie @patreon_163722564

I think you have to do whatever you are comfortable with, whenever you feel comfortable doing it and with whoever you feel comfortable with — provided of course that they also feel comfortable too.

There shouldn’t need to be any hurry, other than to try to take advantage of whatever opportunities, events and situations arise, especially if they are opportunities that are limited or infrequent.

Likewise, you should concentrate on the things you do feel comfortable with, and ignore those that you do not. We all have different abilities, backgrounds and circumstances. Some want to do things individually, some want to do things with others. Some are happy to be photographed, or to do things that are risky. Some want to do things on their own, some want to do things in person with others. Some want an audience, some want to be private and others don’t care whether they are seen as long as whatever they do is legal.

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